My wedding was September 21st, 2019. We had a fairly decent sized wedding. My cousin and her boyfriend had only been together for six months at this point. I met the guy once before my wedding and never showed up to any family functions. We're all having a great time at my wedding. My husband and I are mainly with the guests while everyone dances. Next thing I know is my cousin's boyfriend asks the DJ for the mic and goes to the center of the dance floor saying he has an announcement to make and calls my cousin over. So I rush over and say, nope, you're not getting engaged during my special day, especially during my reception. You can get engaged later tonight, but not right now. It's my day. Thank you for understanding. I go to walk away. My cousin starts puffing and my aunt starts yelling at me and calling me entitled brat. It causes a huge fight and they all end up leaving. My mom, stepdad, dad and stepmom are all on my side. And we're even pissed that they think it's okay to do this during a wedding that they all paid for. My aunt says I was wrong and told me to apologize and call them. Needless to say, it didn't happen. Flash forward to Christmas. It was terrible. My stepdad's entire side were rude and ignoring my husband and I. And of course, guess what happens? My cousin and her now fiance announced their wedding. September 21st, 2020. I'm beyond pissed and still not planning to go. It's my damn one year wedding anniversary. My family is upset that they would even do that. To piss me off or not. Allowing them to get engaged during my reception. My cousin says they chose to get married on their one year engagement anniversary. Either way, regardless of the real reason, I'm still upset. Of course, my name is super excited. So stereo. Am I the asshole for not letting them get engaged during my wedding reception? And am I the asshole for not attending the wedding on my one year anniversary?

No no no I said 1000 times you're the asshole if you're going to propose or someone's wedding why would you do that

And take into consideration by the same people who would propose because you paid for everything so they just want the freebies they're gonna get the photographer that taking the nice venue and everything we are taking the spotlight away from you so

Like, why can't they just wait till they propose another day? like is he that lazy is he that uncreative that he can't think of other ways of proposing on another day which is not a wedding

What part of your wedding today not understand I don't understand it's your day it's the only day you get you get so nobody else's I'm sorry not the asshole here

That's a really good point to make because that is so true because it's just one person stay the pay for it why would you take away their limelight and use it to shine you are asleep it's absolutely asshole thing to do

Honestly I'm really curious as to why people think it's OK to propose on other peoples wedding days because this is really not the first time that I've heard this happening and I feel like people just really need to stop being narcissist especially around somebody else's important day like find another time to propose dammit not on somebody's special day especially at a wedding