So I have a boyfriend and recently he got into a dispute with a neighbor's kids. They accidentally kicked their football into our yard and they came to the garden to get it back. To be honest, I didn't care but my boyfriend started screaming at these kids about how they were poorly raised and that parents should be ashamed. I was fucking mortified. I sent the kids with some chocolates and sweets and apologized profusely for his behavior. I was seeing red flags and told him his behavior was not normal. He kind of brushed me off and I told him if he pulled anything like that again I was con. The next week the ball came into our garden and I was about to throw it back to the kids when my boyfriend stormed outside and took the ball inside. I told the kids that I would bring it back in a minute. He went to the bathroom and emerged like 10 minutes later wearing gloves and a football covered in shit. His own shit. What the fuck. I asked him if he was out of his fucking mind but he stormed past me and threw it over the fence screaming, take that you bitches. I screamed. Girl. I mean I screamed at him about what he was a fucking douche and I wanted him out of the house and he's disgusting and he's a fucking monster. That they were just kids. I screamed and screamed and eventually he left. I deleted all of his games off his ps4 and gave it to the kids as an apology. I was so embarrassed. My ex-boyfriend's mom messaged me asking what happened and I responded with what happened? What happened? You're a pathetic excuse of a woman who raised a fucking sociopath who covered a football in his own shit and threw it at some kids. And he needs to be in a facility because something is wrong with him and god knows I hadn't seen any red flags about the fucking monster you raised during the 7 months we dated. I know I'm in the right for what I did to my boyfriend. But am I in the wrong for snapping at the mother for something she had no direct involvement in?