My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He's good at heart and is normally rational. But on this one issue, he expects to come to me on every occasion, no matter how big or small. He even went with me to an ex-boyfriend's funeral after days of begging. Now my best friend got married a few days ago. It was very small and only close friends and family were invited. My boyfriend couldn't come because of the plus one rule. He pitched a hissy fit, saying my best friend has no respect for my relationship and was shocked when he learned that I was still going to attend. He told me if he can't go, then I'm expecting not to go as well. But that is my best friend and I have to respect the rules. He gave me an ultimatum. Either we go together or I stay home with him. I ended up going because, again, I respect my best friend's rules. He was angry with me and kept calling me the entire two hour drive, then stopped. Later, I got a text from his friend telling me he got into an accident and was taken to the hospital. I freaked out. He gave me the address and I had to leave the wedding and told my friends why. I was crying the entire drive and kept calling his friends, but no response. I arrived to the hospital and asked about my boyfriend. They checked and told me he wasn't there. My anxiety reached 160%. As I kept calling his friends one by one, I just went home and there he was, along with his friend. He saw me and said he was sorry, but it was the only way he could get me to go home. After the initial shock, I just blew up, yelling at him about lying and making me leave my friend's wedding and having me literally have an anxiety attack and freaking out. I kicked his friend out and we got into an argument. He kept talking about how much I love him. Thus, I left, which is my own doing and not his. He was trying to see if I really would choose him or his friend's wedding. He then argued that my friend caused this and I shouldn't have agreed with her to exclude him. I said what he did was horrible and called him a horrible person, then went to my room. It was awful because my friend kept calling to check on him because they thought he was really at the hospital. He said I overreacted and that I yelled at the wrong person. Am I the asshole? Did I go too far?

This is so stupid. How are you the asshole? Your boyfriend is a fucking asshole. You should break up with him. Dude, if I were in your situation, I would have fucking knocked his lights out. And then he'd really be in the hospital.