I'm currently waiting my mother's funeral on behalf of my siblings. My mother and father were divorced, but were on good terms. In particular, my mom was close friends with my father's new wife. This woman, my father's current wife, has an ongoing dispute with my wife. They have a long, long history of bad blood between each other. Both of them have said they are extremely hurtful things to each other. Obviously, I think my wife is less of an asshole between the two, but both are definitely wrong for saying things they have. Anyway, even though I dislike this woman, I have to invite her to my mother's funeral service because she's my father's wife and she was close friends with my mom. My wife was livid at finding out about this and insists I put my foot down and not let her attend the service. So, for two long days she constantly nags me about this, bringing it up every hour. I keep telling her the same thing about why she needs to come. I try to compromise by saying, if my wife is so uncomfortable, she doesn't need to attend and I won't hold it against her. She refuses this, as she wants to be there to support me. So, a few hours ago, she brings up the topic and yet again, I lose my temper. I tell her, just shut up already. You don't have a say in this. You don't get to dictate my mother's funeral for Jesus Christ. Just leave me alone already. I did not say it calmly. I yelled it and was definitely angry because I'm busy organizing my mother's funeral. She's gone off, crying, and I'm left wondering if I went too far. I can't deal with this nonsense and I'm just going to accept whatever judgement is given and go with that.

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