16 years ago, my son Matthew had a daughter with his now ex-wife Josie. I've always thought of Josie as my own daughter, so when they divorced seven years ago due to my son's cheating, I was conflicted and disappointed. Josie wasn't particularly close with any of her family, so my husband and I naturally took them in. Josie was an angel. She had insisted that we didn't have to lift a finger more than we had already taken them in, and though she was hurt, she kept civil around Matthew. My husband and I held a huge hand in raising our daughter Ruth because Matthew remarried less than a year later and now has a son after disowning Ruth. Two years ago, my husband was diagnosed with lung cancer. It was hard on everyone, especially Ruth. They were extremely close. She told him about her girlfriends and boyfriends before anyone else and always wanted him to be the one to walk her down the aisle. Matt rarely ever visited and didn't answer our calls, often saying that we had other kids so it wasn't like my husband was dying lonely. This night, Matt stopped by to talk about inheritance. He never mentioned Josie nor Ruth and hinted that he thought he should get more of the inheritance than his siblings the entire time. My husband and I shared awkward looks until he decided to cut in. He explained that everyone would get a piece, but he'd focus more on Ruth and Bonnie. Matt got angry and said Ruth was just a bastard and that his son deserved more than her. My husband got furious after that and left the room saying he wouldn't include Matt at all. Matt yelled back and turned to me saying that Ruth wasn't worth it because she'll just grow up to be a whore like her mother. I told him that I'd rather have her mother as my daughter than him as my son and insisted he leave. I'm getting phone calls from Matt's wife and family and friends saying that me and my husband overreacted. I'm getting phone calls from Matt's wife and family and insisted he leave.