I have an estranged grandpa more or less. He's my dad's father, but my dad hardly had a relationship with him. I have two other siblings. My grandpa divorced my grandpa when my dad was young, and he lived with my grandma his whole life in a different state and didn't see him. When he got older, he saw him a little bit more, and my grandpa started coming around a little bit more as well. He stayed for about a week at a time, then go home. He was an old, bitter man, to be honest. He never got remarried and lived his whole life in a coastal town with the same friends he had had his whole life. He wasn't pleasant to be around, and could hold grudges longer than anyone I've ever met, but regardless of this, he's filthy rich. He owned a successful business and sold it for one mil. He retired after selling, but his house sits on an island as well, as the biggest piece of land on the island, so it sold for well over three mil. I was never close with my grandpa, but I took after his sister who was an RN, and he adored her. He always told me he was proud to see me follow in her footsteps. He died a few months ago. Since then, my family has been torn apart. He left everything to me. He essentially liquidated all of his assets and ended up being close to eight million dollars. I was shocked. I didn't and still don't know what to do with the money, but I'm going to save it. My dad and stepmom, as well as my siblings, are hounding me to split the money with them. I just can't do it. My dad's an alcoholic who never said anything nice about his dad. Despite him being bitter, my grandpa actually bought my dad a $300,000 house. My dad would 100% drink away any money given to him. As far as my siblings, my brother has full financial support for my grandma, as he's the favorite. He's very wasteful and ungrateful. He never talks to me and is always very mean to me when he does. My little sister is the only one I've actually considered. She's very young, and that's really the only thing stopping me. Her mom is money-oriented and would take the money from her, so I'm waiting until she turns of age. I offered to pay for her college, but now my family's telling me I'm unfair and the money doesn't belong to me, and I'm not deserving of it. That I'm too young and I'll waste it on cars and clothes. I don't agree, and now they're all threatening to cut me off and never speak to me. Or even sue me if I don't give them a chunk of the money. I don't know what to do. I'm buckling under pressure here. I've already had two police officers out to my house because my dad is claiming I stole the money from him. Everything though, through attorney. I know I did nothing wrong legally, but morally, I don't know. So am I the asshole?

He left you that money for a reason. Because he knew what a piece of shit the rest of the family is. Take the money, use it how you want to use it. And don't give it to them.