I've got a post that's gonna be put on the TikTok about this same subject and it's about wearing white at a wedding because I see all these women who get in a tizzy over guess wearing white at their wedding and I'm like it's such a patriarchal you know thing to get upset that other women are wearing white and being obsessive the fact that you think you should be wearing white to like I'm really sick of that because personally I don't care I don't care who wears what color at my wedding as long as they are dressed nice and they're not like a slob or they're not coming in half naked or something you know what I mean They just they are dressed nice and it looks good and whatever because my own wedding dress isn't even going to be really considered white because I like colors and I like sparkle and I like floral and I want it to be like over the top beautiful and nothings ever going to top it in terms of the guests coming because guess aren't going to be able to top a wedding dress it's all the way to almost Kotor so I just it it just is so annoying to me when I hear women oh wait to my wedding who cares she was wearing a white Sunday church dress that looks like crap anyway come on let's get real now are there some white dresses that are evening dresses it look really nice yeah there are but remember if you're the bride and you're supposed to be picking out the wedding dress of the wedding dress of the century then you should always think that it looks better than everybody else is no matter what they're wearing Like if you feel inferior to your guest well then I think that's a you problem and you should do something about it maybe you should've picked out a better dress that you think looks better than everybody maybe you're not that confident in yourself think about that think about that because

Also I want to talk a little bit more about the patriarchal aspect of wearing white because we all know who made up that whole thing oh you have to look like a symbol of purity yeah right OK like come on let's let's stop upholding that kind of stuff like it's OK if you love a white dress and you want to do that sure but the whole competition with other women who are guess wearing white that's patriarchy that's upholding patriarchy to have that