If you're going to do a hospital birth you definitely need to advocate for yourself and be strong and what you know and if you don't feel good five with your nurses I would definitely just say hey like talk to somebody and see if you can switch over this and that I wish I would've done that the first time around but I was I was going to be a first time mom like I just I didn't wanna rock the boat and it be uncomfortable if I couldn't switch nurses and so that's why I didn't say anything but I mean I've never really considered a homebirth

I love the Fathi schedule experience and I'm so grateful for that and I also find it so so cute that your adorable baby is literally in the background just giggie gagging like that is so you but I'm so happy that your second and third experience was way better than your first.

Yeah I mean sometimes I thought that baffles a little bit chaotic and I'd rather go to the hospital get that stuff done and then be able to leave that chaos behind I hope that makes sense at all that sometimes is the same things you can't do in the comfort of your own home it's just a little bit weird I hope that makes sense anyways

Okay Erica, but I loved your perspective and I completely agree with you like just separating the two type of experiences and like You're making it easy on yourself because with home births there's a lot of preparation you have to do beforehand because you need to make sure like it's a safe environment essentially for you to have a home birth.