That is a deal breaker for me or I guess a very extreme pet peeve is someone that always keeps count. I did this for you so you should do this for me or I paid for this three times. What did you do for me? Or I took out the trash every day this week and you've done it only once. Keeping score I think is one of the things that can really damage a relationship. What are your thoughts?

One of my pet P is in a relationship is when someone isn't like caring in Lake powerful things they do and they're doing things like that they want to do take a 50-50 you know

We live in a time where people want to seek the benefit for themselves. So I feel like that's where the keeping score part comes in. And I will say in my head I keep score to make it fair. It's not to make anyone feel bad, especially my partner. It's just so I for myself can see what I can improve on. But I do agree that saying it out loud and trying to, you know, tally up, you did this and I did that, that's just not healthy.

I absolutely agree. Keeping score is at the end of the day it's disrespectful towards the other person.

A good way for me to identify a red flag or a dealbreaker is how that person reacts with customer service workers like how they treat customer service workers like if they're just like cussing out a waiter or waitress and they just don't treat them like people yeah that's not it

If you're not picking up your weight, then of course I'm gonna keep track because you're gonna be like, oh, I always do this I would, nah, I got receipts.