What are your thoughts on sleeping with someone on the first date? Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. You can usually get dumped after sleeping with someone on the first date versus the, like, 58.

I mean for me I don't like to hook ups or anything and like the thought of doing stuff with a stranger is nasty to me but if that's what people are into then you know go ahead but the same time it is kind of a risk because some people just leave after getting what they want but if that's what you want to then who cares

I say unless you met that person like on tinder and you both have the understanding of what it is they know that's a huge problem for me I just feel that I just shows the lack of morals and the lack of self control on your part not judging by any means but that's just how I feel about it you know when I did I really want to meet somebody and that's what I'm having a hard time with right now to find somebody

Sleeping with someone in the first day is the stupidest thing you ever do. They're gonna automatically have a quota for you and that is you don't need shit in order to sleep with them and It's easy So you don't ever want to be in the easy category of women to sleep with anybody to kiss nobody So always keep it safe. Keep it simple. Make them wow you.

I'm right there with you. Besides religious and cultural reasons, I don't think it's a big deal. And I feel like it's so normalized now. And what you were saying, anyone can get dumped at any point. Just because you sleep with somebody doesn't mean that they're gonna be with you forever. I mean, unless you're saving yourself for marriage, then totally understanding. But even with marriage, like, that's not a promise anyways. Like, you can get divorced. I'm not wishing that on anyone. That's not what I'm saying. But, you know, sleeping with someone doesn't have them in your hands forever. That's what I'm trying to say.

I don't think it's wise I know men like sex women like sex everybody likes XO And if you're just trying to go for casual sex maybe it's OK but I don't think it's wise if you plan on getting married because if people are just judging you on your sex game even has great sex it's just some stuff that you gotta have it for then you know

I guess it depends on you and the person. I personally did not want to do that with the person that I was seeing, but then we did end up doing that and it's been two and a half years, so I mean, I think it's all arbitrary, right? Like, it works or it doesn't. I don't think sleeping with it, then I'm on the first date. There's nothing to do with it.