Do you think that it's a little backwards that society has been telling us that our boyfriends, our significant others, our husbands are supposed to be our number one? What if our friendships, not marriage, not these romantic relationships, really should be the center of our lives.
I think there is I always seem to like have like a riding the fence sort of answer because I'm very understanding but you know I think really your life when it comes to people to revolve around the people that are a foundation for you right and if that's your significant other great but if those are your friends that's also great because nine times out of 10 though probably be there through it all you know so I think that's definitely important keep in mind
Yeah I feel that way too because I just saw something how it was like oh you're your man cheats on you 27 times and you take him back all 27 times whole time like your friend missed your birthday party and you're automatically not friends with her anymore and then you've lost like a really good connection because you've been friends with that girl for like 20 years or whatever so I definitely feel like people should worship their friendships more than their romantic partners
I totally agree with what you're saying here. It's like why do we give our simpkin others or men 20,000 more times but then when it's your friend you're like nope that's it you know cut off forever. So I think we just need to be more fair and more thoughtful about these situations.
You know, I think too much of the focus is on the importance of getting someone else for some thing. you know, in reality, yeah, they should be, you know, your partner, your ride or die, but it's not this like weighing necessity.
It's not society it's you if society doesn't tell us who we want to be with it's not about centering your attention around one person you clearly don't like the person you're with if you'd rather hang out with your friends then don't be with that person is I mean it's pretty simple but I love him like do you really love him if he's not your best friend then you might not have the right one
Yeah I think that you have to be honest about like your role your spouse plays in your life and I don't really like the fact that we have to I guess make our supercar those are number one in our lives but I think there's a reason why we do that