One of my wife's friends has cancer. She's been undergoing chemotherapy and as a result has lost all of her hair. Yesterday my wife has her and her one other friend over. They decide that they'd shave all their hair to support their friend and cheer her up. And they did. It's a great gesture and all, but I wasn't aware of this. So I was working on my laptop on my bed when my wife comes up and asks me if I find bald women attractive. I wasn't looking at her and hadn't seen that she was bald. So I say, nope, not my type. Not attracted at all. Why? Then I look up, lo and behold, my wife was bald. Not a single hair on her head. I was so shocked my face could have probably become a viral meme. She says that I don't find her attractive now and starts crying. I try to salvage the situation by telling her that I don't find other bald women attractive, but she looked good without hair. She told me I was lying. I told her that it's just hair and it will grow back. This was apparently not a good thing to say and she started crying again. My mom, who's been living with us, told me I'm an ass for making her cry. I slept in a different room. She's been also looking in the mirror quite often. I've tried telling her that I don't care about the hair and that she did a great thing supporting her friend, but she says that I've given her a small insecurity issue for the time being.