Yesterday I was supposed to spend the night at my friend's house with some of my classmates and we were playing truth or dare. There really is no reason for us to choose truth since we already knew a lot about each other so we mostly just went with dares. It was a pretty fun and we had some weird challenges. I was sitting next to my friend's brother and when it was my turn a classmate challenged me to kiss him. His sister immediately told my friends to change the dare and so she did. To be clear her brother did not say anything when he heard the dare and just laugh so he definitely looked like he was okay with it right? Well wrong because after I kissed him he told me what the fuck am I doing and looked like he was really grossed out by it. I was honestly a bit offended and asked him why he's so grossed out by me kissing him. I'm actually a pretty okay looking girl and even if I wasn't there was no reason for him to act like this. He ended up leaving the game and my friend told me that what I did was wrong on so many levels and to get out of her house. My other classmates didn't say anything so I think they were on my side but didn't want to participate in this argument. Anyways I did end up leaving. Do you guys think I was the asshole here?

Okay now imagine that a man did this and kissed a girl without her consent and he said basically like why are you big upset like I didn't do anything wrong and immediately everybody will freak out right yeah so if it's not okay it's not okay it's not okay for either side to do it don't kiss somebody without their consent unless they verbally say yes I'm okay with you kissing me yes you're the asshole.