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#aita for embarrassing my FIL after I repeatedly asked him to explain his joke to me?
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I used to be an escort from 18 until I was 23. I'm not proud of it, but I also don't give a fuck, because I did what I had to do to keep studying and a roof over my head. That's how I met my now-fiance, though he was never my client. We began to date when I was 25, and three or four months after that, my brother-in-law exposed me, and thus we had to come clean in front of his whole family. Yes, I did that. Yes, he knows. Yes, he doesn't care. It was two years ago at that time, we got over it. After that, there was a span of three to four months in where my mother-in-law and some of my fiance's aunts and cousins policed their husband when I was around. It was really weird, to be honest, because these dudes were like 40 to 60 year old, and I wasn't that desperate. So my fiance shut their bullshit hard, and even when his family still gives me this side eye from time to time, we thought it was behind us. He proposed last year, and five months ago we found out that I was pregnant. We were really happy about it, and we told his family as soon as we knew. His sister and younger brother were happy for us, but his mom took me aside and begged me to be honest with her, and asked if this was really my fiance's child. I was taken aback, but I just rolled my eyes and said yes. She gave me some shitty speech about how she only wanted to make sure, and that she was happy to be a grandmother. Well, last weekend we were at his parents, when his family and some of his friends and us were talking about the name, how he might look, and my father-in-law said that he and his grandchildren have a birthmark in the inner thigh, and that even his grandchildren has them, so our baby might too. And then he said, but how can we know who he got it from? It may as well be from me, my boy, or my brothers. And he and his brothers began to laugh. My fiance got mad, and before he could say anything, I said, I don't get it. And my father-in-law was like, yeah, because it runs in the family. And I said again, I don't get it. Why would he get it from you? And he began to get nervous, and said, because you know, it's just a joke. And I said, but I don't get it. And you all laugh. Explain. It got to the point that some of his friends said, hey, it's not funny. So he excused himself and left. Later, my fiance's brother-in-law came to me and said I was wrong, embarrassing him like that in his own house, and that I knew what the joke was about, and because of my past, I shouldn't be surprised. Now they're all demanding that I apologize to my father-in-law.
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What do you mean we got over it? You mean he had to get over it? And everyone else had to get over it? Because you did something that you don't care about that is disgusting, really disgusting. You belong in the streets.
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That is so inappropriate to say like in the family gathering crew the fuck up rolling whatever it is that she was an expert ascorbic I don't the emergency there were cheated that's fine
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I actually can't believe you're getting married. You can't even get these jokes but yet you're gonna get married. Like for fuck's sake man, like for real. You need to get some fucking intelligence before you do anything else.
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I mean, who are you to judge what she did, what she had to do to survive?
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What do you mean? It's not me that judged her, she judged herself. It's her cause and effect. I just see it and I call it. I'm honest. I just like honesty.
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Your other one throwing words like disgusting in the previous response below.
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And your point being.
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Point being you're judging someone for trying to make a living and you should be the last person to do something like that.
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And why should I be the last person to judge that?
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I have no idea what this comment means on why you should be the last prince to judge that. You're just throwing out mean adjectives at someone over a story they're telling. Like, you don't need to troll them.
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Yeah, neither do I. I don't know what your comment means either, so next time think about what you mean before you say it, maybe?
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I think you're the one that should pause before calling another woman disgusting for her line of work.
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Right, this is total woman power here. Step down from the clouds. Woman power is not supporting women to do sexualized things with their bodies. So, step down from that.
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So if a man did it, what would it be?
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The thing is, man already did it and learned from their mistakes. Two wrongs don't make a right.
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Sounds like you're the more compass of society, aren't you?
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Typical hater, ain't you? I was trying to dismember something. You're that sort of type that goes, you're insecure, oh you're listening to that. Stop self projecting.
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I don't know why you are so emotional.
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