Asking for a friend, have you ever felt consumed by the thought of your partner cheating on you even though he or she never really had any indications of of doing so? How did you get over that? Did you move on or did you guys break up?

I actually kind of recently had like went through this and my partner also went through this with me and it can definitely come up when you don't trust somebody and and the thing is sometimes you need to trust your gut.

Um, I wasn't worried about my partner. Like I didn't think that he had cheated on me and hadn't told me. I thought that I was really nervous of the future of him cheating on me, which is different. So like, if you think your partner cheated on you, he might have.

But I was just really nervous. I was like, what if he does one day and breaks my heart? And that was just me having like a lot of fear of the future and in that I needed to just trust him

Yes Like it haunts me all the time and I'm trying really hard to just push that away because I know she won't ever do that I just need to find a way to cope with my thoughts

To me that that sounds like a little bit of insecurity that's going on like a Patronus and it also sounds like you've been hurt in the past might want to get over that

To be honest bro asking for a friend telling your friend there that you should never be worried unless they give you a reason to worry about it and if you do then you're just overthink it

Yeah it's definitely like some kind of PTSD if you've been cheated on in the past you just all of a sudden assume that everybody's gonna cheat on you and I feel like it takes a while to change and grow from that