So I'm 22 and I'm the legal guardian to my 15 year old brother. We're very close and we always have been. He lives with me now obviously. He often gets sad that we lost our parents. And I try to comfort him as best as I can. Now about my girlfriend. We've been together for about two years. She doesn't live with me. She stays over really often though so she has the house keys. Two days ago she came over without warning me. Me and my brother were asleep on the couch. He wasn't wearing a shirt because it's hot. And he's laying on top of me. She woke us up and I made a scene in front of him. She said that our relationship was weird and disgusting and it's extremely concerning that he's so affectionate towards me. My brother was in tears and he even apologized to her. I brought him to his room and calmed him down. I went back to the living room. She was sitting on the couch watching TV and acting like nothing happened. I told her to get the fuck out. She got defensive again and said that she was just stating her opinion without trying to hurt anyone. I grabbed her wrist and brought her to the door. I didn't hurt her. She was following me. I didn't use any force. She left. She called me for the rest of the night. Anyways, um... Can a brother and his brother have a cuddle on the couch without being judged? Or just a couple of orphans here? Do we have to be asshole orphans?