Cookies

By clicking “Fine”, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts.
Audio
Text
Queen Pandora 591d
Queen Pandora
1
1
Copy link to post
 
Irene
Bee 591d
Bee
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Deleted user 590d
Deleted user
1
1
Copy link to post
 
Irene
Heather Ihla 590d
Heather Ihla
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Savannah Marie Wagner
1
Reply
Copy link to post
B Mac 588d
B Mac
1
1
Copy link to post
 
Irene
Deleted user 588d
Deleted user
1
Reply
Copy link to post
The Deep Dive 588d
The Deep Dive
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Lil Naz K 588d
Lil Naz K
1
1
Copy link to post
 
Irene
Mitzi Mendoza 587d
Mitzi Mendoza
1
1
Copy link to post
 
Irene
Add comment
Do you think it's important to tell your significant other about every one that you've dated?
10
35
Copy link to post
I think the answer to that is yes. Because you get a lot of trauma from your previous relationships. And it's not a matter of if it'll show up in your current relationship, it's when. so they need to know what they're getting themselves into.
1
1
Copy link to post
I agree with you to some extent, but also, you know, the love of your life or, you know, the big breakups, it's important for your partners to understand.
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Not at all.
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Probably not every detail but like sometimes I tell them about my past and I would like to know about their past just because unlike nosy and all that stuff but like I don't know it's not really necessary
1
1
Copy link to post
Yeah, I agree with you. Not every detail, right? But like the big parts, like your last relationship, how long you've dated and why did you break up? you know, things that you didn't like about it.
Reply
Copy link to post
Nope, it's in the past. It should just stay in the past.
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Do you I don't think you have to do every single one that you did it with the ones I like you know are important to you than yeah I go for it but if not dumb like you don't have to tell him every single one
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Absolutely not but if any traumas are involved you feel like it may be affecting your relationship that you're currently in maybe so but no I don't need to know the information and I don't need to know there's
1
1
Copy link to post
It's a good point to bring up anything that is trauma related and that will affect the future together. I think that's a really nice bonding moment as well.
1
Reply
Copy link to post
No. Just now.
1
Reply
Copy link to post
Definitely because I think if you find out something later on when you're deep in a relationship or married then I could do for customer shoes
1
Reply
Copy link to post
I feel like if they ask you, you should say it, and they should keep the same energy so when you ask them, they tell you it shouldn't be a one-sided thing. And that's my opinion on it. depends on your partner and what they think.
1
1
Copy link to post
I like that you mentioned that it shouldn't be a one-sided thing because I think often that is the issue and that causes the problem in friction.
Reply
Copy link to post
I don't think necessarily that you need to share your entire history but I don't I also think you shouldn't hide it so you know just kind of be open about it
1
1
Copy link to post
I agree with you on not hiding it, but high level of, yeah, this was my last relationship. We broke up because of this and we were together for X amount of years. This is what I like and this is what I didn't like and that's that.
Reply
Copy link to post
Add comment
Follow Us
English
© Stereo, 2024
Get the full experience on the Stereo app
Open app