I've been struggling with not like bringing in income. Um, like it literally just, it makes me feel like I'm not being helpful and like when my husband is stressed out, I feel like I'm stressed out to the nine because I'm not helping financially and I feel like I could be. But with daycare it doesn't make sense for me to put the kids into daycare with how expensive it is and that's why I started content creation and little by little I've been making more and more. So I decided to treat myself with a wagon, but my husband thinks that the wagon prices are astronomical and I will never use it or that I will never get used in or that it's just an astronomical price for just a stroller wagon. So do I buy it anyways because I'm still struggling to actually pull the trigger because I've wanted one for over a year, but I don't know, like I want to do what be like considerate of my husband, but at the same time, he isn't over the road truck driver, so he's gone all week long and it's just me with three kids. So I feel like this would make my life so much easier and more capable to go do things because I also have medical issues. So do I just pull the trigger and do it? Because I feel like everybody's significant other said it was a waste of money. And then once they got it, they're like it was worth its weight in gold. So do I just pull the trigger? advice.

I think that you should treat yourself and I am I think that you really need it it would help you especially with him being gone I could get into a long conversation about everything you just spoke about

Yeah being financially having your own money it really helps I am a stay at home mom currently and have been doing odd jobs to make money and it's just not enough you know so

And I've been applying for jobs for a couple of months and haven't gotten anything and it's just super frustrating and I think that if you have the funds, I say go for it and he will be fine in the long run.

If it's your money and you think it would help you guys I would say go for it but also look for a secondhand one as something wrong sometimes people sell that like people get them as gifts or whatever and they sell them for a bit less with nothing wrong with them so I'll check but I feel you on that make enough money I'm going back to work early so late because I just feel like It's hard and we doesn't make enough money for us both but I just feel guilt

If you're going to use it, then yeah, definitely get it. I mean, things like that really can make your life a lot easier.

So we have a wagon and we take it everywhere with us like for, especially when we go like on theme parks, we always go to wild adventures and we always use it. My son usually sits in it at the beginning and then he'll like walk around and then he'll get in it at the end when he's tired. He usually falls asleep in it, but it's perfect because you don't have to lug any like other bags. If you got bags, you can put it in there. If you got drinks, there's cup holders like everything. It will literally change your life and you don't have to.

Maybe you guys could compromise, you know, maybe see if you can find a used one for cheaper price, maybe see if that helps because I mean you definitely deserve yourself a little treat even thinking about it for over a year. obviously is something that you think will benefit your family.

Definitely go for it if money is an issue try like Facebook marketplace usually always has someone getting rid of their stuff and take at least like a good week or two looking for one if you still can't find one and then try to talk to your spouse again and try to come to some agreement you know like if it doesn't work out maybe try selling it back again or something I don't know but definitely with three kids I need it with you so I can't even imagine with three definitely worth it in my opinion

Honestly if it's going to help you if it's going to benefit you and the kids I definitely would just say pull the trigger and buy it and then explain to him all the pros on why you purchased it and why you actually physically need it Because if it's going to help you why would he say no you know what I mean