Okay, so this is a dilemma someone's having and I want your guys's perspective on this so She saw her co-workers boyfriend on a bunch of dating apps especially the one that she's on and She knows for a fact that this co-worker is not in an open relationship and she's pretty serious with her boyfriend So should she tell the co-worker what she saw or should she just mind her own business? Because I know a bunch of people who will say that You know, she says something like she's gonna save the woman I agree, but I feel like she's got to do it in an anonymous way So it doesn't backfire and come back at her because I don't know how close she is with this co-worker But she said that this co-worker is her favorite person to work with basically and that she again knows that they are not in an open Relationship. He is straight-up cheating. So let me know your thoughts

It's sticky because it's at work and you don't want to be pulled into the drama or take sides on the relationship. That's tricky. Um, I really couldn't have that on my conscience. Um, I would just pull the person aside without anybody else around and show them the receipts and say, can you just not throw my name under the bus or put me out there like that?

See me personally? I wouldn't even tell them and honestly I would just tell them because I think that's just the way that I am like either you're gonna believe me and you're gonna and you're gonna like understand that I'm not gonna do something like that or you're just you're gonna find out for yourself and that's just how I feel about it I don't know if that makes sense or not but

I could never let someone that I mess with and she said it's her favorite person to work with or talk to I could never let someone that I am cool with be made out to be a fool so yes I would snitch and I don't have a problem with that because I've had a situation where someone came to me and told me something that somebody I was dealing with was doing and I respected her for coming to me so definitely tell them because they need to know