I personally love posting my partners on social media like posting pictures of them and with them and stuff like that because I'm like I'm proud of what I have like oh look what I have look what I got you know like look how happy this person makes me kind of kind of deal and if a partner refuses to post me on their social media like I had 1x do it throws off some red flags to me because it's like okay well who's on your social media that you're embarrassed to be seen with me with or be seen with someone with

it almost makes it seem as though that they're hiding somebody from you that they don't want a certain person seeing that they're in a relationship with somebody and like of course that's just my experience that's not everyone that's not you know that's not the experience of everyone so I can't really say for a generalization opinion but that's just me I see it as a red flag not really a red flag but I see it as a warning sign