So when it comes to love and dating, I keep hearing more and more about situationships, friends with benefits or a deal, okay? And I want to ask you guys, is that a smart thing to be in? And I'm not judging because I know people prefer to be in something that's not technically all the way of being official with someone to protect their feelings, but I know others who want to have that full on committed title and have the real deal. And again, not judging, I just want to see where you guys are coming from on this because for me personally um I couldn't couldn't do it like couldn't be me I rather have the boyfriend and you know but again I totally respect people who don't want a significant other because of whatever reason and they just want something more casual. Again respecting everyone here and yeah let's get talking let me know

Yeah, for me, I don't want to mix it like that. I know what I want and that is something that is long-term and commitment. I want that. And I want that other person to mutually also feel the same way. I've been in situationships in the past. I've taken it way too quickly in the past. is just, you know, there's not a strong foundation ever set when something like that is done.

Once upon a time I used to like friends with benefits. I got bored for a while and then I wanted to be on McCoy but I got bored with that when I went back to friends with benefits but I got bored with that. Now at my old age of 53 I'm I'm a confidant of Yodeling.

For me personally, I would want a boyfriend just like you, but for other people it's really hard to be in relationships after some toxic relationships, you know? But you know, I'm not judging anybody because of that.

I know girl but salt ties are real situationships if you guys fucking doing all those unholy things I wouldn't do a situation shit because I guess that's what I'm real she gonna have you fucked up too much in love it's gonna be your relationship I was just fucking making a relationship no reason to be a situation shit unless you guys are just talking and having little dates Have a good one.