I would say a red flag that I cannot stand is when a child makes a mistake or does something that clearly isn't intentional and like a parent flips out. Like a child spilling their juice on the floor. Like okay if the child like throws the juice on the floor, yeah. But if they like spill it and like the parent freaks out or like just doing things that are clearly something that they didn't do on purpose and like them getting trouble for it. hate that it makes me want to.