Alright guys, you got to hear about this. So there is a guy that messaged me earlier today and basically told me that he really Wants to ask out this girl, but what's stopping him is the fear of rejection And so he wants me to ask you guys what to do and I'm just gonna say this first I want him to know that you know what whether it works or not the worst thing that she could say is no Right and that way you have your answer and you can move forward but she might say yes and things can work out. You know, don't think automatically that she's gonna say no. You never know unless you try, right? But I would love to hear what advice you have to save for the sky.

Oh I love the that idea that you just told him to go for it that sounds ideal but have you ever just went for a good three times and got denied all three times in a row and three times isn't even that much but get denied three times in a row and see how you feel about just going for it it's a little different you know I've been there and getting denied three times in a row will change things it could

Ask her out you're gonna get rejected in your life it's just part of it would you rather like at the end of all this be like man I never took any risk because I was scared of this one thing that's like a huge part of life just part of it ask her out she doesn't like you she's not for you and I don't like I get it someone who like someone right now who's not interested in me it's a bummer the bummer but I'm gonna get over it and saw this dude or maybe she says yes

I think he has a problem with accepting rejection but rejection is part of life you might apply to a job that rejected and if the girl says no it's fine I mean she's not Alaska in the world I could be another one and it will make it much more stronger but he has to accept that whenever you ask him think it might be yes or no it will never be yes

I mean dive in the deep end it just does a go for it man just be rejected and I know it's it's painful but it helps you get over it

Everything you said is the same thing that I would say to a guy and what I do say and I also tell them it's easier because I tell them you know just me as a woman in my own experience the guys that I'm friends with I value that friendship and if they like me and ask me out and I reject them I still value that friendship and I'm not going to you know make it seem like that it's this be-all end-all

You know what? I think the problem a lot of men have is that the worst thing a woman could say is not no. They cannot take it for granted anymore that a woman will be polite about it. I work with women on their relationship skills, getting them from single to married, and rejecting men gracefully is a skill that we have to work on. This is something a lot of women do not know how to do and a lot of men fear that.

That is some thing I don't we have issues with fear of rejection or just like wanted to be liked by literally everyone like even like platonic relationships and friendships in them and so I'm very much people pleaser and I've definitely been weaning off of that as I get older and just really focusing on me what makes myself happy but it's always hard to kind of completely not think about you know

Honestly, how I feel is that you should just take shit how it is because at the end of the day life goes on So, you know what? Just take it and move the fuck on. That's what I do.

Like they always say, you just got to go for it. Like, or somebody can say it's no, but hey, you move on. So I think you should just go ahead and go for it.