I was reading a post from a girl who basically wrote in saying that she found out that her neighbor was cheating And so she was asking for advice on how to handle the situation because it was bothering her and I thought that'd be really sound advice to ask here as well Because the majority of comments over there was saying to keep things anonymous and to obviously let The lover know that you know, there's cheating going on and I agree I think as long as it's not traceable back to you and you're able to protect your identity and yet help someone else out simultaneously, that's just the best thing you can do. But I would love to hear your perspective.

Honestly, I'm a little torn. Initial thought is like, yeah, of course. Like, I would want to know. So, you know, I take that in my own hands to let everybody know that something's happening. But at the same time, I think over everything else, it's none of my business. Who knows if the people have like their own arrangement to where they can fool around like that. And it's okay. Like that might be something they agree on.

Yeah this is hard and I agree with some of the other people responding because it also depends on the relationship I have with the person has been cheated on or the person that is doing the cheating like if I'm close enough I'm calling both of them I'm calling cheater out and I'm telling the person who's getting cheated on but if it's like someone that I don't really know when they're just like the Wolf and maybe put a middle friend I will try to get to them that way but I just looked at my place for the safe I feel

What do you tell them dude because who like who would who wouldn't like if he saw someone you know God didn't cheat them all Sheila out of

I would like tell the person like I'm the kind of person I would tell the person and confront them in the act and then do something about it like unhinged you know like it's just they deserve what's going to happen to them

Yeah I definitely would I was just talking about this earlier because I don't care if they were my friend for 10 years if I saw her cheating on her man I'm gonna tell him something because I just don't want to surround myself with that negative energy so I would literally just like DM them with like proof or something

See if I cut my name with she, I blow his head off. You got me? Or her head off. You cheated for what? You know, I could have boomed to the head. No. BAH

See for strangers like I don't get a fuck. I don't fucking know you don't give two fucks like that. That's not my business Friends my relationships and everything like I get a fuck. I'm gonna call you out like that's my business and everything.