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Would you date somebody who has kids and the other parent of those children is still sort of active in their life? Is that a deal breaker or is that something that you would be willing to accept?
Personally I don't think I could date somebody who's already got kids I want kids of my own I think it complicates things and then there's another person who is a father figure and you kind of just like never really a true parent I don't know bugs me a little bit I think
Obviously both my husband and his son's mom are very active, but I feel like, you know, When you have two mature adults that can co-parent, it's no big issue.
So yeah, and I was never like closed off to dating anyone who has children It just it was never presented to me but yeah, his son is really, really smart. Like really smart. He's a good kid.
Honestly, I do not think I could do it. Younger me would have said yes, but current me is saying no because I know how much of a commitment kids are, and I just want to make sure that there's a fair balance all around.