A lot of us believe that finding that perfect special person is going to bring us happiness, complete us, but that's a little bit backwards. In order to really find someone, open up, complete your life. You need to be happy and content first. The only one in charge of your happiness is yourself. So in order to do that, you need to start loving yourself and respecting yourself. And once you can look in the mirror and say, you know, I may be single for the rest of my life, but I will be happy. That's when you fulfill your own happiness destiny and can find someone to accompany your ride in this thing we call life.