The biggest tip for someone who has a friend that's about to become a new mom is to check up on them. Don't just check up on their baby, check up on them and make sure that they're taking care of themselves. I had one really amazing friend right after I had my daughter. She didn't even tell me she was coming up to the hospital and she showed up to the hospital and it's just like God's timing when it happened because when she had came up into the room was right when I was left alone with the baby for the first time. Her dad had to go out to get us some stuff. I was left there alone and I was so scared and she walked in and immediately started helping me change the diaper and it just having a friend like that just changed everything for me and I think that more moms needs friends like that that are going to check up on not only their baby but on them too.

I a thousand percent agree with this and I kind of wish I would have had someone at my door even if I told them that I was fine.

I agree with you. We should have friends that check up on us. And like you said, even if we say we're okay, we're not really okay. I mean we would like a hot meal maybe or just simply letting us.

Yes, I agree with you on this one. It's not just about the baby like, okay, yeah, we check in. We check in and we see how babies dream. But what about moms? Like we often forget about this big time.