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I, um, I consistently have dreams of people who I have lost in the past and I don't mean, um, for morbid reasons. Just people who have decided that they no longer want to interact with you and they just stopped messaging you, stopped trying to make plans, and in some cases literally never reply to you, even when you ask them, Hey, are we okay? Like, what's happened? Like, what's going on with you? And they leave you no explanation and I think that is so cruel. I mean, it sucks because you really think you know somebody and you really don't. And if you're in a predicament where you think you want to, you know, just cut someone out of your life, can you just do them the due diligence of just giving them an explanation? Even if they're a shit narcissist, just tell them, because sometimes they genuinely have no idea. Um, to be honest, some people who have ghosted me, they don't have a reason. I think it's all to do with them. It's nothing to do with you. And I think that's also an interesting aspect that you have to remember. Sometimes it's just people's own insecurities or own problems and it's not all about you, but needless to say, it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt any less.
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You're definitely correct about people being more expressive about what they do so then you can understand why they act the way they do. I don't think it's fair that people don't explain things when they do them, especially when they cut you off. That's actually kind of fucked up and you have a right to feel that way.
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