Gentle pat on the bum aint hurt nobody 🤷🏾‍♀️😂 #relationships

okay so this is kind of goofy but are all females fixated on like slapping or patting their spouses butt or like their man buns? I'm not fixated on it but I will say I definitely will like pat my husband's butt definitely he hates it but like I don't do it often or like all the time but he'll be like he'll give me like this look like you mother fuck but am I the only one or wait let me know