That's really good that your friends understand. Because I've seen so many debates about this on Twitter and stuff. But yeah, and I feel like the biggest thing too is even if I'm not alone, like and I'm with my partner, it's like I'm living with them. I'm not living with you guys and yes I get it that's the whole point of us hanging out but like especially after a long day of work sometimes you literally just don't want to do anything you know so I'm always like, hmm, like, why get mad, you know?