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if you find yourself in a relationship with someone that has since become toxic and therefore has made the relationship a toxic one, At what point do you say to yourself? Enough is enough, let me know.
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I think the final straw for me is when I am constantly stepping out of the relationship and viewing it from a third-person perspective and just noticing that.
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The red flag I would say is when you start talking about your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend like what the fuck I need to know about them like be for real be a FFR be fucking for real.
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I could see how that would be a red flag, especially if you're trying to get to know someone and like 95% of the conversation is about their ex. Like no one wants to hear that, especially on a first date.
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I once dated a guy like it was like after like two weeks of like you know like seeing each other He would talk about his ex so much and I was too kind but girl. It's a big-ass red flag
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It's even more of a red flag if you're in a relationship with someone but somehow their ex just seems to still have some sort of role in all of this because your partner keeps bringing them up like why?
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That is a red flag of a red flag of a red flag. That is a clear indication that the person you're with is not over their ex. And you need to exit stage left out of that situation.
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I used to date this person and this person kept talking about they acts like they mean something like bitch. I'm dating you You're not dating them no more like get over it. He broke up with me because he went back out with her.
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actually he cheated on me with her that's what I did that was right there because he was a hun I don't know if I can cuz on you but like I hope that bitch die I hope that bitch die
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Well first off, I am so sorry you had to go through that. Second of all, him talking about his ex meant that he wasn't over her. And third, yes, you are absolutely allowed to curse on stereo. No one will fault you for that. People on here have said worse.
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Girl I'm French and like every second I have like the opportunities where I do it So don't worry about cursing and you better smack that bitch up like fucking like roll her like a roller coaster, you know?
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She might have got the right idea, but she had the wrong bitch that day. Uh-uh. Don't sleep with somebody. Especially if somebody is fucking with somebody else. Like, girl! I ain't gonna say nothing else because it's a lot of shit that went down.
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The fact that you caught them in bed together, that shit is just... I can't even imagine the array of emotions that you must have been feeling in that moment when you saw them. Damn.
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Trust. If they betray your trust, lie, cheat, steal, it's very hard to get that back. And it's different than just a slight, it's more serious.
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When my peace is gone. That's the final answer. If you... whether it's platonic or romantic, it doesn't matter what kind of relationship, the moment someone takes away your peace and you're second guessing yourself or second guessing your surroundings, that's it. Bye!
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Notice that so many people just look for this big thing or this big red flag so we can justify cutting somebody off but in reality we don't even need to give them that justification. If we don't feel good then we leave. It's that you have to protect your peace.
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Girl, you don't know how many times I've recorded this, but this is such a good question. My final straw was when I felt ignored during the party and he didn't make me feel welcome with his group of friends.
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Oh my god, I'm so sorry he had to experience that. I've been in a similar situation where I was out on a date with someone and he went off and started talking to this other girl for like 20 minutes. After that, I just left and I never spoke to him again afterwards.
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Like what the fuck? Like why would a human being just not think about all this shit? Like do they lack emotional intelligence? Like what the fuck is going on?
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It really all comes down to selfishness. There are some people who are just so selfish and self-absorbed that they don't realize that some of the actions that they do have a negative effect on the people around them and they simply just don't care.
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Reach Like to add on about what you just said like there's so many Narcissist guys out there like I can't even count anymore. I'm just saying like oh You know like
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You're absolutely right and I totally get it and this seems like some kind of pandemic all on its own because it just seems like since COVID hit like they've just been coming out of the woodwork. I don't know what the hell is going on.
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Oh my god, you got that right, like it's literally a f***ing pandemic, like I can't even go on dating apps nowadays without being so f***ing guarded, like just one thing, just one thing, cancel, cancel!
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Enough is enough for me is when I've done everything in the relationship but this other person doesn't want to meet me halfway and we all know that it takes two to tango and That's it. I'm done. I'm out
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I totally hear you on that. I think for the most part the majority of us have all been there So yeah, when you know you've done all you could you've extended yourself and you're not getting anything back That's when it's time to go
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Final straw for me is somebody when they take you for granted and not appreciate what you are doing for them and being ungrateful. I think that's still enough is enough for me.
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I personally think people come and go and some people are for you for years just to teach you something So I would just leave and continue with my life even though I love them so much God will literally help everyone everybody to let go so that's what I would do
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I guess for me, I hold respect very very high up. I believe that respect is really important between two partners and if he doesn't respect me, I would be... Ciao!
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