I know this is gonna get a little messy because I've already heard this conversation on another thread on a different platform And I just want to bring it here to hear your guys's perspective But would you be okay if your best friend and your partner? I'm talking about girlfriend boyfriend Wife husband, whatever being close. I'm talking about if they hang out without you or they have inside jokes or you know, whatever Whatever. Would you be okay with that? Or is that straight up disrespectful? Let me know because I would love to hear what boundaries you have in terms of your relationship with your best friend and, you know, your partner.

It honestly depends because if it's like he's spending more time with her than with me, then I'm a little suspicious, but other than that, I trust in you.

Me personally, I would have to say no. The reason I say no is because I have really big trust issues - if someone did something to make me lose my trust in them I would not be able to trust that person again or for ages, even if they’ve changed or not. Also I’ve had really bad experience which was introducing my best friend to my bf (at the time) they became close and went against me, as soon as he would appear my best friend would drop me for him. So, no.

Okay, like they can be close, they can be close. But not too close, like, like too like, too like a friendly enough level I guess? But like not where you gotta like yeah best friends, like dop each other up and stuff like that. Like close enough where you guys are chill with each other, no arguments, no nonsense. But yeah, that's, that's, if it gets anything more than that, that's when I, yeah, that's it.

Okay, so like if they're friends and they can talk and stuff, then like yeah, unless my friend has a flirty ass personality and I don't like the way she's talking to him and I don't like the way he's talking to her, then no. But like, if they're like on the phone together, and I'm not around, or like hanging out, and I'm not around, or like inside jokes, that's just mad weird. like why are you so close?

I mean, it's alright to let them be like friends and shit. But when they go to hangin' and out with each other and ignoring you while they're hanging out, that's not okay. There's something going on there.

Okay, here's my thing. It depends because it's also like if you're close with your best friend you should be able to trust them enough to know that they wouldn't do anything to like betray your trust in them and also you should feel the same with your partner. In my case if I had a partner I'd probably want my partner to be my friend and also most cases my partner my best friend have already been friends So therefore they're already really close. And there's like so many different scenarios in which it would be okay and which would

Absolutely the fuck not. What I look like my best friend being close to my man, like that's weird. And having inside jokes that no, unless I'm apart of that inside jokes, then there will be no inside jokes. You guys will not be having each other's phone numbers unless it's an emergency and guess Well, I will be checking their phone because I know it's not happening.

I definitely don't care like if they're friends, like that's fine, but if you're hanging out without me that's a little weird and I'm definitely gonna bring it up to both of you. I'm not just gonna like accuse you of things, I'm gonna like observe your friendship and if I notice something that's weird or off, I'm gonna call you out on it. But I really don't care if they're close just as long as they're not like internet loads, because that's...

Honestly only depends on the person oh but trust is a big fucking thing and like I don't think it's a bad thing unless they be like flirting and shit that's weird like that's why it's fucking weird

So like me personally, I don't trust the component and I wish to trust my partners. But I, of course, I have mega trust on my partners. But come on now, I trust my partners but I do not trust their girl best friend or boy best friend. And because a guy, like a guy in here said trust is important. And of course, I trust my partner. But I don't trust the girl best friend. Oh, that's my peanut oil.