So I was on Facebook today and I was reading this post that some girl wrote in a group I'm involved in but basically she was asking something along these lines and I thought okay let me bring that over here. So tell me what would you do if both you and your best friend have a crush on the same person because for me the first thing I'm going to do is have a heart to heart talk because time and time again I have seen this type of situation play out where somebody put that crush in between the friendship and then the friendship crumbled so bad and I obviously care about my best friend and I want to make sure she's okay. This has never happened to me by the way. I'm just saying this hypothetically but I have known people who've been involved in it ordeal like this and because they didn't have a heart-to-heart talk or didn't like communicate clearly things are really messy. So that's what you don't want. But yeah, communicate, try to, you know, see things through. And, you know, you can't also force your crush to pick, you know, the heart wants what it wants. But I'm curious to hear your guys' take.

Oh my gosh kill her and kill him too.

To be honest my friend likes the same person on my back off and be like are you going to heaven

I was in the same situation but my best friend like that Michael Matt my girlfriend and I had to get off her ass so I end up being harassed so I was almost in the situation but it's not it's not the same thing I mean it is the same thing but it's like I won't give it a heart to heart I just say fuck him shit might as well

It's simple, if that's your best friend and these are actually best friends and you should be faithful and loyal as best friends Then, you don't fuck about with a guy, you don't... you ditch that guy, both of you Not one of you gets him.

I mean shit you need a ride a tricycle or are you just gonna MoveOn or people out there

I kind of asked myself the question are they really friends because if I found out my friend liked somebody I liked I would back off in the interest of my friendship being more important than a crush wasn't someone I was in love with it's a crush so yeah I definitely would back up and see what they do if they They don't, whatever. Now, I'm going back up completely.

I would say girl that me and mine are in the care if we're not friends anymore back off earth roof

This is how long to be friends who like them 1st to like some more like if if if you if I like them first But if they let them I'd stay back I would stay back I don't care if we haven't talked William spoke to him Announce my time no no it will be respectful call code do you know is it okay cause I couldn't find you know but you were you were always doublecheck

Well me personally I tried to see if we could come to a truce like neither of us get the man because if we're really best friends then we don't really need a man to come between us and we're both crushing on the same guy that's just weird like of course would be offended at first but then I'd be like OK well he's got to choose or we're gonna we're just gonna not like the same guy I mean I don't know