So I was talking to a couple people in my circle and not only that but just like hearing about people's experiences on social media, it just seems that dating now more than ever is so difficult. You know, I'm hearing things about bread crumbing, getting ghosted, love bombed, apparently a new term called getting zombied. I didn't even know what that was until this week. And it just really has me thinking, what the hell is going on? Why do you think people are having a hard time with dating? Is it the dating pool out there? Is it the exposure to technology? Is it, I don't know, outside opinions? I am very lost on this and I would really love to hear your two cents.

Look, I'm completely here with you. I don't fucking understand. I'm completely lost in the sauce. My only conclusion is the internet has gotten rid of public places where people can meet each other in an organic and effective, inefficient way so that they can, I don't know, become friends and actually not feel uncomfortable by meeting a stranger because you already saw them in person. You know what I mean? I feel like that's the only conclusion that comes to mind.

I'm glad you brought this up. I was actually talking to my best friends about this yesterday and Yeah, dating. I feel like it's gotten really difficult I feel like we just live in different times so too where it's like a lot of a lot of people have a focus on just like trying to survive and Like make sure that they're able to live comfortably rather than put their focus on relationships. I think now it's just like, you know.

It's too complex to explain, way more complex than you really think. But the big switch is coming, where men are getting fed up and being oppressed, and men are no longer going to chase women, which means women will be chasing men. That's the big switch.

I feel as though people have problems in their relationships is because they're not healed and they bring all of the old shit it's a new book racing chips in it doesn't end up working so

I think it's because people are just sad and lonely just very depressed people down you don't wanna end up like one of them you don't wanna end up on the street selling yourself just so you can get a boyfriend because you know pack pack in my Devic girl I swear I was Pippen back in my day I'll keep them home with desperate girls that needed a man and a liar

And people are having a hard time dating because they're not really understanding the seltzers you're not really taking the time to even know what they want I don't know relationship or what you're looking for and so they go looking for some thing that they don't even know how to be harder as they say don't understand partnership and they're looking to use partnership to fill things that it doesn't need to fill

I feel like cheating on your partner or just like going from one one relationship to another is so normalised nowadays that people actually have commitment issues and they're not able to stay in a relationship with someone and even if they were like get married and stuff they're so used to just being with other people at the same time or like relatively soon after breaking up that they find it really hard seeing relationships

See with me it's like nobody wants to be with me at this point and all like it is oh do you want to trade trade trade trade like I feel like for me the men that I talked to I like the seagulls from Finding Nemo that are like mind mind mind mind But like, with trading.

Because that is a soda bunch of bitches is a lot of people don't wanna express your fucking feelings and I feel like they should just shut the fuck up already and really just at this point just have sex and have sex also the sex