So I've seen a lot of people ask about, you know, right person and wrong time. And before I used to think like this other guy that I used to talk to when I was younger, that he was the love of my life and I was just waiting for him to get divorced. But now I met a guy maybe 2018, 2018, 19 is when I met him and started talking to him. Well, I didn't really take him serious back then. Like I would just mess around with him and then ghost him for a little bit and then, you know, pop back up like, Hey stranger, you know, that whole or deal but now like I'm really giving him a chance now and man I was foolish I should have been gave him a chance y'all so has that ever happened to y'all like y'all ever like not really give us somebody a chance and then when you finally do give them a chance you're like damn I should have been gave it this motherfucker chance.

Well I guess that's up to you on how to interpret that because I feel like there's Grotheer maturity on both your ends like they're probably good quality traits that you would've probably glossed over or maybe they're good quality traits that he had learned from that time apart from you were you guys kind of just fell off because I learned I am in a different scenario

In my scenario my husband and I before we met each other we knew or we know a lot of common people like even as close as he was running in the same circles my sister was running in but he and I never ever crossed paths when he tells me how he was during that time frame I was like yeah I don't think I would've we would've lasted if we met that time