All of you who are in relationships and you guys are really in love like that's your person. Um, how was it in the beginning? Because I am in like with this man and it feels great. Don't get me wrong. Like he feels like a safe space for me and I really want to just jump right into it but I am coming from a toxic relationship so I am treading lightly as fuck with this one because I don't want to mishandle him and I want this to work if it's going to work and then I also want to be okay if it doesn't work so that's why I don't want to jump into it too quickly so for y'all who are in relationships and are in love like in the beginning how how did you feel like how did you know like yeah this is the one this is the one I'm gonna be with the rest of my life or in hell just for a long time, whatever your situation is.

I think at the beginning of any relationship you're gonna feel giddy and excited and that's normal now depending if that's right person for you that takes time and basically keep it lighthearted just You know the best way to look at it if it's a right person for you long term or even marriage is the fact that if you guys can communicate and not get angry over little things and understand you guys is going to have differences in small areas, and that's gonna be okay.

In the beginning was good. I think it went smoothly and we found compatibility. As time goes on, you either confirm they're compatible or you might find a few things that you thought you were compatible but you might not. Which it's okay as long as it's not like a huge or like an essential such foundation thing. If it's like a hobby or whatever, I think it's good because it's important to have your own separate hobby.

Oh my gosh, everything you just said I fully relate to. Oh my goodness, I feel like I said this myself. And you know what, knock on wood may us and everyone else here have a healthy and happy relationship with their spouse. Significant other, however you wanna say it. But to answer your question, I really was treading lightly and I almost had a, is this too good to be true type of feeling? because I was in shock.

Okay, so I love this question. In the beginning, we both were like really excited, still are super excited, nervous. I think we were really like dedicated on trying to really get to know each other and also have fun. But like being honest and everything. And so I think that really just like set the bar for how it is now. And yeah, I was nervous mainly because...