I was listening to a podcast yesterday. I believe it's called the mom room. And the guest on the podcast was Heather Ray Al Moussa. For those of you who don't know, she was on Selling Sunset and she married this guy named Tarek, who I don't really know much about. But I think he had like an HDTV show and now they both have an HDTV show. But anyway, she was on the podcast. They just had a baby. I think the baby's a couple months old. And you know, she was kind of talking about balancing her career and motherhood and like all that stuff. And she said that she has a lot of help in terms of not only help with her son, but also help with her like work stuff. Like they have assistants, they have drivers, things like that to help them really balance out that life cause they both have very big careers. And she said that she's very hands on with her son, but she does have help and her mom is very much so in the picture and very hands on in there to help her and so is her mother-in-law. And she said, even with this village that they have, it's still not enough and it's still really hard. And I found this so interesting because I feel like the average mother these days doesn't have the village and we're all like, we don't have the village, what happened to it? And, you know, I know that Heather's take is a very privileged take because not all of us can afford all of that help or have family to help us. But it really just, I think deepens the sentiment that motherhood is so hard and it takes so much out of you and you need so much help that even, you know, the wealthy people of today who want to be hands on parents and still need the help because they have careers are like, we still need so much help and sometimes it's still not enough. I just found that very, very interesting.

OK I need to go and listen to this podcast because I really like watching selling sunset I have a lot of different opinions about it might one of my friends and I we always talk about the show all the time whenever it's on and then when it's often what we see online and so thank you I didn't know that she did this podcast going to go listen to it now