What is the point of lying in a relationship or to your partner? Like honestly, I want to know. Because I feel like when you come into something new, like this is your time to tell your partner everything. And if they accept you for that, great. But if they don't, let that shit go. like let it go don't try and force something that's not gonna work you know yeah like out the freaking gate I know me and my husband we were very honest about everything and you know there's things in our past that like we're not happy about but it's happened you know and we both chose to leave that in the past and appreciate that the, you know, person told, well, that he told me I told him. So, um, yeah, I want to know like what is the point of lying to your partner?