Alright, picture this, you're in a relationship. Is it okay for you or your significant other to make new friends of the opposite gender? Do you think it's cool or is it straight up disrespectful? In my case, you know, with my partner, if anyone came into our lives beforehand, totally fine, they're welcome to stay. But if it's someone that's trying to join in now, you know, I'm gonna have some questions and I feel like it just depends on the context. But yeah, I would love to hear your two cents about this topic.

No because I'm gonna tell you why if I were to go out and let's say I'm working and I make a new friend at work like an actual friend and we hang outside hang out I'll try to work and everything if I told my significant other about this person and they're going to tell me oh I know what what they're thinking they're a guy they only have one intention so if that's the case fine I totally respect that boundary but then it's going to be the same the other way around you know I don't want you making friends because I know how girls are and if they know you're in a relationship they're not gonna make friends with you I know that

awesome time. I get what you mean but like especially if it's someone new's about, someone know it makes sense but this is one thing trust comes with play

I really think it just depends on the relationship how much stress you have any relationship if there's any sketchy stuff that's happened in the past that is really happened in the past and your spouse has proven to that they are trustworthy I don't see what the problem is with it

I think if they have friends of the opposite gender before they met me then that's fine. but to like go out of your way to now make new friends once we're together then I think that's a problem.

Absolutely not, they can make differences. Well, like, if it's like a work, brand-new, cool, but like, not anything serious, you know?

I think it depends depends on the scenario light saver and since my boyfriend made a friend at work he was a girl and like obviously not best days of her just friends yeah I don't think I'd mind

Good question. So I don't necessarily want to say that it is completely disrespectful or disrespectful. I think that you can kind of learn... Oh, excuse me. You can learn if someone is being... If someone's coming off inappropriately and considerate, you know, I think a lot of times when people say that someone is taken, they will come in and try just to be friends and be cool and be friendly. finally and it's like well then where were you before?

I am OK with it as long as people boundaries and respect and it doesn't matter you know who they become friends with in terms of gender identity if somebody is going to cheat on you with somebody else and neglect the relationship then you should not be with that person at all from the get-go you know get rid of them kick them to the curb but someone who actually really cares and respects you isn't gonna do that with someone they make friends with

such a sticky one because i don't think you should ever want to like control or limit your partner um but oh it's such a hard one i think it depends on the capacity of the relationship so like if your friend like is almost like a brother and says like a younger brother i don't i'm even trying to justify it but it's like i think just use your own discernment honestly like Yeah, I think it's just on a cake.

But I definitely feel like if there are gonna be friends, there needs to be boundaries, but it's so hard because again, like... Yeah.