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It's really interesting how we can just hone in on the negative I can remember and I posted that battling their picture on April 22, 2012 and it took until June 24 or 25th for it to really go viral and I was actually interviewed by someone that I was friends with someone that was an editor of the daily mail and they sat on the story and it just went and went nuts and I had thousands of comments and maybe 100 of them were negative but you know what I focusing on the -ones and it took me out for a long time and you know like emotionally and just all that kind of stuff and what I've learned is when I'm doing what I meant to be doing I make waves and I have haters and that's usually my cue my feedback that I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing and I fell in love with this quote and that I first learned from Brené Brown that and I was actually spoken by Theodore Roosevelt and it says this The man in the arena it is not the critic who counts not the man who points out how the strongman stumbles her where the door of deeds could've done them better the credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena whose face is marred by Dustin sweat and blood who strives valiantly who airs who comes short again and again who spends themselves in a worthy cause who are the best nose in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at worst if he fails at least he fails well daring greatly so that his place she'll never be with those cold and timid souls who neither no victory nor defeat And what Brené Brown said and one of her speeches was this if you're not in the arena getting your ass kicked with me I do not have time or a desire for your opinion so just remember that what you're using tech to share your story
I love this whole post and I love Renee Brown and my cat says hi. But yes, that's so true. The ones that are usually the haters are the ones that aren't brave enough to go out and do things themselves. They just sit there and point fingers at everyone who's actually trying. So that's a very good point.
Yes, it's very, and it's very easy to give them more power than what they actually have, right, of our lives. So we just have to keep doing what it is that we're doing. and everything will work out.
I agree because Missouri does love company but the one thing that I also like to point out is well yes hurting people hurt people it's not a conscious realization that they're hurting people and so in my time as a coach right and you know people that I don't understand with me or somebody did whatever to me and I would say OK here's the thing if you're walking along and there's someone that is like
And there's someone that's in like a shit puddle like mud and shit and a fucking stink and they are literally covered head to toe and you are helping them out you're gonna get shit on you so that's a Chewase going into it that's like I am consciously aware as someone that is you know further along in my healing journey that I am choosing to help you knowing this will probably hurt/trigger me to offer more healing you know what I mean