Hey everyone I hope that you are doing awesome I took a couple days off and end just to kind of be present in the real world and I'm gonna be doing a live on TikTok and talking about this but one of the conversations that I've been having a lot lately it revolves around connection and human connection and relationships and you know there's a lot of fear with that as well because of yeah I mean honestly it's scary allowing yourself to be seen as is scary And in a revealing your truth is revealing what you stand for what you stand against what you believe what you don't believe you know that just gives more when you reveal that to other people and it opens up more space for one of the biggest human fears which is rejection and then rejection also feels like abandonment as well and a betrayal and you know it's so it's it's like I had a huge thing for a lot of people But at the same time whenever we don't expose ourselves like that we are left without those deep connections that we crave as human beings and compounded with that you know we can only love on connect with other people to the point that we've been able to do that ourselves and connecting with ourselves knowing our self is some thing that is really not talked about or taught a whole lot and in that as well we come up against you know what if I don't believe her fall in line with what my family believes are the certain tribes write groups of people that I am involved with because we've tried there's an unspoken thing that says you belong now but if you change you might not So I'm curious to know is it terrified