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Okay last question I guess I'm on like the X series But um do you guys ever feel some type of way when your significant other is hit up by their X? um I feel like I used to only because I didn't well I did know but my husband is so freaking like his energy is so contagious and so So when people would check in on him, just making sure he's good and how things are with him, even just asking about us, it was like, okay, at first I was like, but now I'm like, yeah, tell them I said hi, there's no beef. So I don't know, I don't trip on that, used to, but I don't anymore. I feel like it was an insecurity though because of how my other relationships were dealing with cheaters, you know, but he's been so honest. So yeah, but what about you guys?
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For me personally it's kind of funny like you thought be able to never do that So I guess it does kind of bother me.
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It's the literal audacity though, and so it's just like go back to where you came from You know so yeah, it's just yeah the whole I I feel like it's mind games too.
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Yes definitely the audacity for me girl words and definitely mind games I completely agree with that because what type of game what what outcome were you expecting ma'am she happy over here
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I'm laughing because you're just so cute like yeah cool and then know you're bothered and then yeah um No for real though like that how just you're fucking speckful how dare you think that you now have the same access or relative even a single droplet of access. No sir, no ma'am. Back up right now getting your place. Matter of fact, I'm gonna just keep walking past you, sir, because you're acting like a fool. You look ugly.
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Literally go back to where you came from and go back to where I fucking left your ass
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literally they gotta be fucking dumb because I never been on dumb bitch so like your games are not gonna fucking work so back up and do you see that I'm I'm happy, I'm happy.
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period I feel like it is sad though because I know they get away with their shit with other people but it's like nah my parents ain't raised no fucking dummy and then on top of that like I peeped game for my brothers too so like don't even start that bullshit. it's not gonna work.
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Right, exactly. Like my parents were very very very strict so I had to learn myself how to bullshit and I know like You know what I mean? Like when your parents are so strict those are the kids that know how to get fucking sneaky So I know when shit is sneaky because I haven't been there done that not been sneaky with like someone or a partner per se but you know what I mean? Like you can just feel the sneaky energy.
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I was just gonna say, when parents are strict, hell yeah, that's when you literally said it all, but yeah, so it's like, why are you even trying to be sneaky? Especially if you've explained your background to them and how you grew up and everything like that and they still think that they could pull one over on you? Yeah, no. No, nobody gotta go.
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It definitely bothers me and like why don't they mind their own business and have their own life
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That's fair. That's absolutely fair because it's like, why are you, you know, trying to mess up something going so well? you know you're from the past stop it leave yourself in the past I get it I I get it.
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So past relationships, yes, that would bother me, but I'm trying to get in a habit of not being possessive over who I'm talking to or who I'm with So I'm working on that, but yeah, definitely used to bother me.
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When I tell you it takes so much patience but also I think it takes a lot of trust like in reassurance. Trust and reassurance are the two biggest things Because, woof! Yeah! Yeah!
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You already know I'mma be there, I'mma be there so fucking fast.
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Not at all. Because at the end of the day, I married him. I have his last name. I have the ring on my finger. If she's got ulterior motives for why she's chit-chatting with him, I don't care because, honey, I won. And it's not even like a competition, but if it's a competition, I won. So what do I care what she has to say?
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Period at the end of the day like you said you won and I love that that's Exactly, I feel like it I'm not gonna lie. It's gonna be a minute to get that but once again we were dating before and so When we were dating I was like why the fuck but now that we're married It's like it doesn't it doesn't faze me like how it used to And I think too is just we're very open with our communication too. So So yeah, there ain't no competition, but baby, I won.
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I definitely felt all that, so yes to this comment, yes.
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Probably because first of all why does your ex still have your number or like why do you have it saved in order to answer it so that would definitely bother me because I feel like you shouldn't be in contact with your exes even if it did end on my good terms I just wouldn't be comfortable because I don't do that with my exes
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And I feel like It once again boundaries, right like boundaries are so important in everything we do and Like you said, yeah, why do you guys have each other's number saved like that should have been a door closed now Y'all can be cordial like if y'all see each other out or even social media for me because I think social media is so fake I don't care, right? Plus we tell each other everything so that's fine, but the texting, the phones, no.
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I hear that I definitely see a perspective and it definitely also makes me uncomfortable I don't understand why things end on a cordial note, but you know what like Things don't have to end on a bad note, you know, both people can actually say like hey, oh this didn't work We're not gonna talk again. It's the audacity now that they want to try to have a conversation But that's where the person just checks them and says hey, oh like you cannot talk to me We're not talking.
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I'm gonna have to say that my gut is gonna play a part in that because there are innocent like yes they're still friends But like if there if your gut is going off, you know what I mean? Then there's a reason and then if they like if that person gets defensive and doesn't respect your feelings like pay attention to that for real, you know, just saying.
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This! You always drop some gems and I love that. Yes, absolutely. Gut feelings. Your gut will know. I feel like your intuition, we always say like, you know, when a woman knows, she knows. So for sure, absolutely agree.
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Hey thanks and yeah and I think more women need to talk about that and just like the validation because like for you know for so long I think religion is played a part of the sea like don't trust your feelings they could be from the devil You know what like we need to talk about it and they're like there was a long time that you know women put up with guys cheating because it was like exchanging sex for survival kind of things so you know
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Yep, exactly. Religion plays a role in so many things that like, literally don't make sense. Um, and it's great. It's not that I'm not even like religious. I grew up in a Christian household and I am very so much spiritual, but some of the things that like we were, I don't know, validated for just, you know, you get me?
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OK and I hear you but we also have to remember that before history we had her certain herstory get it and so we had a type of an imbalance matriarchy as well and one of the things that a lot of women don't think about and I'm not validating patriarchy either is that we are the the portal from the material into the physical like we birth new humans are created inside of us
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And there are various documents that have been found like I am kind of Dead Sea Scrolls style that talked about how normal immaculate conception was and Mary which was Mary Magdalene Mary the mother of Jesus Mary and Martha Bible by Mary was actually the term for female priestesses so it very well could've not been their actual name and then just identifying them as princesses
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And on you know we are coming back into the balancing stuff because you know we had to trade sex for survival for a really long time but with you know and then don't feel be sweet blah blah blah blah but still have guys I mean like their range of emotion for the longest time has been beat you know you can be angry you can laugh but don't laugh too much you're the protector you're the provider you're a hard ass You are invincible
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And so this is also why they're terrified of vulnerability which is also either terrified of women on anyway I can go on and on about this because I've studied it for a really long time and it was part of my sex coach training and sex and intimacy coach training I should say but yeah you know we should maybe do a show a live show on it I think that might be fun
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I love these conversations too because for me I love to learn. I love to learn about things that put things into perspective, especially history. And they always say history repeats itself, but it really does. And so honestly you taught me some things. I did hear of the her story, so I thought that was so dope that she brought that up. But I definitely...
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I did not know about the Mary Magda. I didn't know that that was like a common name for like priestesses and like that's that's amazing but you know like like I said I love to learn I do like to read or like listen to my audiobooks but no no no this is definitely interesting for sure.
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I'm glad you're finding it interesting. I geek out about stuff like that. And some people find it interesting, other people find it like insanely boring, you know?
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None of my girls have ever had an accent them up because they know better like we grown like they did I'm kicking that bitch out of the car
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I get you I feel it I feel that a thousand percent because it's not okay to be texting no ex whether you guys were friends or not boundaries need to be set.
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For me something I got kind of car mode
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Yeah, absolutely. It's like disturbing your piece. Like why disrupt my piece? So yeah, completely get it.
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And like you said though, we are bringing things back to balance and so like I think that whole shift is Causing everyone to be like what the fuck like you know, but everything it has everything has to be balanced everything must be balanced, you know?
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