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Hey y'all, so do you guys believe in right person wrong time? I do because I feel like there's a lot of instances where I Won't say for myself, but I think with other people. It's the right person, but the wrong time You know people are always going through things in their life So you just never know but has that ever happened to you and if that has has that person or I guess as time has gone on Have you guys? been able to find each other back into your lives or Was that just like a lesson like a good lesson on for when how to love someone how you want to be loved by someone? I'm curious about this.
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Yes, I do believe that my husband, I've met him before and it was just wrong timing for us and and he ended up marrying somebody else. So now I'm just waiting for him to be divorced. So, you know, we can be together. "... вес r-"
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What should tell me when heat divorce is? because we will for sure be bum rushing this dude like, Hey, hey.
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This is such a good question so thank you for sharing that. I did used to believe in this but Since I'm at my current partner, I think that if it's the right person, it will just work regardless.
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But that's also to say that when I look back on like the circumstances of like where I was in my life when I met my current partner and like how much work we'd done on ourselves, both of us. I think it was kind of perfect timing as well.
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I do want to believe that since I feel like he's generally the right person for me, I want to believe that if I met him at a different circumstance it would have worked out as well.
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Goodness, so they literally, sorry this is our topic, but they extended the um the replying time. So yes, thank you for hearing us stereo um but no I I totally give what you're saying and thank you for answering the question um I feel like definitely would have um been different if we would have met sooner just because of the age difference but I also think we had to go through certain things just this is for us personally but yeah I get you
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100% I think I've met many people and that was just the wrong person at the wrong time but I also don't believe that there's just one so I've been very fortunate now where I think I met the perfect person at the perfect time and can't wait to build something with uh-huh
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really cool outlook. I never thought about that, knowing that there's more than one. Like there's so many people in this world too, so it's like, yeah, I definitely, I agree. Yeah, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree.
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Yeah, I appreciate the response and yeah, I mean, I think my favorite sort of example is, you know, I moved around to a few cities and a few countries and if you imagine your life from now on to the rest of the life and you drop into any city, anywhere in the world, chances are you're going to find someone that eventually becomes the one. So it's not about there being one in the world, but you're going to find those that match with and eventually that's going to become the one.
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And I think the whole idea of the one is a beautiful sentiment and I think once you actually get someone that you Learn to love and you care about more than anything in the world Then at that point there will be no one else, you know, no one else in the world but Yeah, that takes that takes time commitment and work, but it's a beautiful thing
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So it has to happen to me personally, but it happened to my cousin. The guy that she dated right after college, it didn't work out. And then now, as of recently, they rekindled and and they reconnected and they're back together.
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Oh, that sounds like a good little love story. I'm glad that things, you know, are working out. Maybe during that time they weren't in that right mindset, but now it seems like they are so hopefully everything works out for them.
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That could possibly happen and but I believe that everything happens for a reason a purpose in a plan and so if it wasn't meant to be it was meant to be you know
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I definitely agree with you too. You know, I feel like it's not meant to try and force things either on people or force anything on anyone. Because someone said, you know, they tried to, or their cousin or sister tried to date someone, didn't work out, but years later they rekindled. So that's another great possibility too. I mean, just I think when people force it, it's not gonna work, you No.
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Yes and I think there's you know the biggest thing is there's a lot of people that they've never used they have never really taken the time to figure out what they actually want in a relationship so they just go based off of their subconscious default and it's not necessarily the best thing to do
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You better preach, okay? Because yeah, a lot of people don't know what they want. They definitely don't know. And I think sometimes it does end up being a at least a time for the other person because it was just like, you know, so yeah, for sure.
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Funny because like back whenever I was doing life coaching and stuff and You know people could say what they don't want like for hours and hours and hours like I'm not even joking But then you turn it around you go. What do you want? They're like, like, they didn't know how to answer.
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It's the jumbled up words that kills me because it's like okay, so you don't know what you want cool. Gotcha But I think it takes a lot of you know self reflection Which they don't spend enough time on because I think a lot of times like we're focus on judging or reflecting on other people and it's like we got to focus on ourselves first, you know?
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Totally and culturally speaking like we're just there surrounded by what you don't want what you don't want what you don't want and then it's like whenever you flip the switch and you go can you decide what I want and then you're like I don't know whatever you want you know yeah I gotcha
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I hope this saying is true because my COVID-19 Bay just came back into my life. And during the time, I was a little bit crazy, chaotic, you know, emotionally crazy. But now, I believe she was the right person at the wrong time.
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I'm so hopeful for you and your COVID Bay. Hopefully, you know, things work out for you guys this time I know during COVID it was really crazy You know, I think everyone was trying to figure things out during that crazy ass pandemic and you know but hopefully it all works out for you too.
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So first of all, great question. Second of all, I suppose that could be a thing, although I, if it's truly the right person, I don't know if there is such a thing as the wrong time. I suppose it could be a situation where if in fact it is the wrong time, you know, you guys can like circle back around and meet up later on in life and make it work. But I just, still, if it's the right person, I don't think that being a not so convenient time would actually get in the way of you guys being able to kind of build, right, and thrives so I don't know.
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I love this response and I'm so sorry for being late. I feel like I never get the notifications, but no, I completely hear you. I feel like I was talking about this with one of the other girls above, but we were just talking about, oh no, it was on something, a different soundbite, but just how if you want it to work out, you will make it work out. Like both you and your partner will make it work out. So I agree with you there, but I feel like some people still, just still might be the wrong.
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But maybe for some people it still might be not the right timing because of whatever they... Like they may not be able to handle all of what's happening at once. And like you said, I mean, yeah, if it's meant to be, it'll definitely circle back around, you know? So, yeah.
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Yeah, definitely well said, definitely well said. Yeah, great post.
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Thank you, I appreciate that. You have a great rest of your evening.
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I kind of believe that. Like maybe you're not ready, but then I also believe like I thought that somebody was the right person wrong timing, then I realized that's not true. They weren't.
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You know, things always happened in divide timing. Now I'm with someone I love so much. and it felt like really good timing and yeah, I don't know.
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Oh, I'm so happy for you and your person and I hear you too. I feel like you know Sometimes it's like the right timing, but you know It's so complex life is very complicated because you just never know what the other person is going through So like what if they were going through things in their life that like maybe your relationship is too much But like I mentioned before you will if you really wanted to work you'll make it work. You know what I'm saying
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My shit, you might wanna get, you might not wanna be married, you might not pursue your career. I'm a pawn, I might wanna get married, settle down. So I do believe in that shit, I call it like 100%. Yeah.
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