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My husband and I have been trying to have kids for three years. I've had a series of miscarriages and in a single pregnancy was successful. My recent miscarriage was a month ago. And although my husband has never said anything up until now, these have been such trying times for me personally. The tensions and emotions are very overwhelming and I have become too sensitive even at the mention of the topic. He took me to his family's house for dinner last night and my miscarriage was brought up by his mom. The look of disappointment on her face made me lose my appetite completely. She went on and on about what may have caused it and then my husband chimed in and said that he is starting to come to the conclusion that maybe I'm incapable of being a mom. I was floored for two reasons. One is that he's that he'd even say such a thing. Two that no doctor has told me there is something wrong with me specifically. So for him to declare I was incapable of bearing children and being a mom hurt like a sting. I looked at him and it was like what? Then told me not to get offended since he was just being honest. He said he loves me and thinks I'm perfect but still thinks that I'm flawed in that area referring to motherhood. I had it at a point and just got up from my seat and took myself and headed to the door. I said nothing just made my way out. He shouted at me but I didn't stop. I went home and he came and started unloading on me about how immature and too sensitive and ridiculous I was being. He said he was giving his honest opinion about the matter and I have no right to police the words that come out of his mouth whether I like hearing them or if it's or not it's still the truth. We argued some and then we stopped talking altogether. He keeps saying I exaggerated and walked out during dinner and disrespected him and his family over literally nothing. I'm unsure I handled this the right way or yet acted out of emotions.
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