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All right so are there more pros or more cons to having a friends with benefits and less you're number one pro and you're number one con let's go I think for me the number one pro I guess it's like since your friends are actually really genuine friends with benefits is that it's like someone you already get along with you guys bye guys got the vibes and energy are there you know what I'm saying so it's like always going to be a good time to let you know do you want to maintain intimate things with someone like you already are genuinely like cool with but the kind to that is that it can ruin the friendship that's already establish because it's like if it doesn't work out or people like jealousy and like all those thing that tie into it can kind of mess it all up so what are you guys think
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I mean one pro that I like is like you know that was too creepy. I mean that's all I'm saying
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Wait, I thought you were friends, you knew each other. I mean, shouldn't you know how jealous your friend is? I mean, I don't know. The sex is just, I don't get involved because many can't manage or don't know how to manage their emotions. So I wouldn't even get involved with a woman like that. So just be friends, no sex.
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I definitely feel you on that because it's a very sticky situation and gets really complex and it just gets taken out of proportion especially once it's hard to manage your emotions you're a human you know what I mean feelings are like nature is one can't pretend or try to control that and I guess being in control would be just avoiding it all together because if you all are already friends it's like in that chemistry there in all the sex is good it's just gonna mess everything up
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Phone cause you're friends with benefits is that sometimes for love with each other so there's a lot of Wauconda sometimes have a good relationship is no point breaking up
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Yeah I agree a lot of the time or sometimes just one side or one person falls in the other person still living the best life having fun and like you're not entertaining like a plethora of other people so that's what I just gets really sticky I'm asking and I just feel like it's easily avoidable by just not doing fine with benefits at all but if there's like boundaries and you guys aren't like each other's main priority with a whole friends with benefits aspect but you're still dating I think it's Doable
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I think a pro would be that you're comfortable around them and you wouldn't really be nervous around the person because you already get your get each other your understand each other a con would be that They would get jealous easily or annoyed by someone that you're talking to and then everything just goes to shit
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Yeah I've been comfortable around the individual is great but I feel like that's also what's going to like make you want to fall for them if you're going to catch feelings especially if the foundation of a actual legitimate friendship is already there and then like any time and Eddie moment like someone could literally just kind of flip on you just like how you said the jealousy thing they can start touching his feelings that say anything and then start like attacking you and it's like what the hell I thought you're just friends of benefits
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I think it's always my idea because I've done it it's not fun at all don't you just don't do it live a little bitch don't do it fun
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Savanna I'm totally gonna have to agree with you on that because honestly it's just It's just an accident waiting to happen with catching feelings and literally it's just even giving it a type the time of day as you're just adding fuel to the fire because we're only human and someone's going to catch feelings especially if the vibes and chemistry is there and then you guys are having sex and spending time yeah just red flag of the whole idea
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I mean, you don't ever a twerian up something mere fool, so let's con.
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Where are you getting this Darth Vader voice from I got a feature I'm here are you just using some thing from home questions that need answers because I can't even I'm trying to figure out what you're saying like sir please help me out
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For me a pro is like freedom like I'm allowed to talk to whoever I want to without them telling me not to get mad at me for it and a pro will be like getting attached to quickly or rushing things like you know pretending like if it was a actual relationship when they start and they get like up
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I'd say con's because the worst thing you can do is catch feelings, I think.
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Yeah I think that is the worst thing but then also you gotta think about like if that person really was your friend and then you guys said to the waters of doing friends with benefits you could also lose that friend and I think that might be even worse than catching feelings because I feel like well now because you know sometimes people are strictly just post platonic friends and then you guys wanna test the waters and I feel like losing that person could like mess everything up so it be like a huge risk factor versus someone you just met that you wanna do friends with benefits with you know
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If I'm there truthfully honest I don't I don't do it but just thinking of it like objectively pros are the biggest pro is of course you always have someone you don't say it emotionally physically I have all the way
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Especially if the friendship already is like awesome already that's what brought you to close it off the biggest con really Donely time is it someone decides to overstep the boundary that's already said before if someone else types of boundaries and said it is on you
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Yes, the potential of the friendship being destroyed is forever gonna be the biggest con because if you guys really had like a great genuine platonic foundation bill once the physical Part of that is added and it doesn't work out because of one or the other catching more feelings Or the lack of feelings being caught and it just gets so fucking sticky, you know So I am with you on this. It's just
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