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All right so are there more pros or more cons to having a friends with benefits and less you're number one pro and you're number one con let's go I think for me the number one pro I guess it's like since your friends are actually really genuine friends with benefits is that it's like someone you already get along with you guys bye guys got the vibes and energy are there you know what I'm saying so it's like always going to be a good time to let you know do you want to maintain intimate things with someone like you already are genuinely like cool with but the kind to that is that it can ruin the friendship that's already establish because it's like if it doesn't work out or people like jealousy and like all those thing that tie into it can kind of mess it all up so what are you guys think
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Proves that pleasure you know I'm saying both sides and he does understand each other you know yada yada yada whatever but the cons you guys both had a good relationship with y'all come back to each other and then doing something you guys not supposed to do while you know relationship
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And then you know and the cons do you know I'm saying you talk about like you know how that flows no he's just a friend or not she's just a friend and hold on the phone as somebody you know you will sleep with you know I'm saying that you know
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That's why you know if you say no that's just a friend who that is a fry kind of giving a little bombastic Side A because like no dog that we are y'all look at each other is more than just a unicorn quarters Franciosa
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Yeah definitely agree with the pleasure part and then if the vibes chemistry's already there as your friend like it's time to stand like everything's amplify bedrooms Bowman Nina bathroom Bowman
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You got me weak with the bombastic side at 1000% agree with you right there because you can say is you can feel it like you can't help me I'm like I just I am really observance of happy people and shit
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I feel like there's more problems with this because sometimes you know even if you say oh we don't have to catch feelings or anything you're gonna catch feelings some type of feelings are going to develop and it's just gonna be
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What is this soothing meditation music send me the playlist says like I just feel like I need to be meditating like listening your voice like that music is playing in the background really
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But now I wanna thousand percent agree because if you want genuine friends guys already like our connected you know I'm saying like that's already one step over the boundary like y'all are solid friends so once you add the chemist the physical and it's good
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I think for me the number one pro is security and the number one con is illusion. is not real. That's fake.
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I am so late I was replying to be is like it's ridiculous but I'm back in action trying to catch up so am I was gonna say I agree the securities there cause you guys already have that foundation which I believe every relationship me the foundation of friendship first but if you guys are like friend solely for 20 years and has been checked the botanic and then you guys shift shift shift Little effing now
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Not all the time because at the end of the day your friends should always be a benefit and your partner should always be a friend with benefits. So I think I take my first message back.
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There's too many cons bro assuming cons if you Are like fucking with somebody that's that's a relationship without the emotional dependence but sex is too important for you to not have like it
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Like they are going to be too many problems from y'all doing this if you guys both are wanting to remain like exclusive and come cut it off at any point what is the relationship in guys have it's a mutual relationship
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Tell me if you genuinely were like actually friends with this individual beforehand then I fuck a kid like it's a big huge risk factor cause if it doesn't work you have now like fucked up the whole relationship you know what I mean like the whole friendship is like at risk it literally could be stuck at bay a fuck you guys are catching feelings and one are obviously one always does especially since you guys already have a friendship that's a complete stranger that you're just having fun with which would technically be a "" now we call sneaky Link
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Then to me that's like a difference because like you're not nothing Juliet rest other than your feelings because once I was gonna catch feelings but it's like now you just not as high of a risk as you are like losing a solid friend that you've had for like X amount of time versus a complete stranger that you're just having fun with you now
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There's more cons because somebody gonna catch feelings eventually and honestly The only good thing about it is having a consistent person to hunch on.
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Yeah this is so true they're really there's more cons anything and then like the consistency you would think so but then since you guys aren't supposed to have any like you no strings attached it's like that person could still also be doing their side doing their own thing like an I just don't like to share that's my issue with a Lego we don't I don't like to share and I thought I guess there's a contract but it's gonna get broken if I wanna be sorry you know
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Dude there's no pros in fucking friends with benefits bro like there's no pros yeah you get a fuck just make them your boyfriend girlfriend whatever bro like it's so stupid how people do that shit
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I agree I feel like yeah the pros are like very minimal because the kind I'll weigh the pros I think it's stupid to I think you kind of set yourself up for failure because one person is always and forever is going to catch feelings I've never seen anyone not catch feelings and it's strictly just be fine the entire time and it just gets messy and then if the person is dealing with multiple people by the time I go to the person it is this drama waiting to happen
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The thing is those and 90% of the time when silence of catching feelings usually as the woman and then it just turns out bad for everybody especially since at some point in time unless y'all become more than friends with benefits you have to go date somebody and then he gets
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That's when it gets weird because it's almost like you're breaking up like you can't do that anymore and chances are they can give each other exactly what you need sexually cylinder missing each other whenever you get somebody new and whenever you get somebody new
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You know the significant other whatever You got a missed at that level of understanding and intimacy that you have so you're gonna wanna go back to that friend because well that influence is cheating
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And nobody wants to be cheating you like you just you just a douche if you're cheating that's the reason you should always avoid situations and even when you think about cheating but it's it's it's going to ruin the friendship in someway
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You sound like a pro like you've been through this time and time again Mr. Daniels right now but I am now I 1000% agree with you I really feel like that's like a literally exact map out of how friends benefit works out or sometimes is the other side where they end up falling for each other and they want to give it a serious try especially since the foundation of the friendship is already there unless there's like some major reason why you wouldn't want
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Not sure where I got cut off but I'm noticing now that we get 30 seconds instead of 15 so that's nice so that's a nice touch but anyways long story short I agree with you that shits difficult it gets very complicated and messy so to me personally there's more confident there are pros
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Yo we have 30 second snow that's so much better than 15 seconds like I had to rush my senses so many times while talking nugget double the time that's so nice bum yeah hundred percent like sometimes of the best relationships come off of like a friends with benefits type thing especially since you already know you like them as a friend and then hopefully you like them sexually if they all turns out well then it's either you become relationship or it's easy to cut them off since you're just Friends
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There are more cons and pros and cons are they might actually get a relationship the pros are the big time that's it
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Yeah I most definitely agree that there's way more cons and there are pros in this scenario because honestly like the only pro to me is like having good sex with a friend but the friendship gets messed up feelings get involved it just becomes way too sticky and I just would rather dodge that bullet like especially if it's really a genuine friend versus just like casually having sex with someone
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I feel like there's way too many cons on yeah it's just a recipe for disaster headed to a bad situation catching feelings losing a friend and then getting hurt so it's a no
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I agree I think the confluence is like way more like on the heavier side then there are kinds I mean problems are the cons are higher than the pros that's not what I said I was anyway I won thousand percent agree like there's the only really benefit is just having good sex with someone you like vibrates by the other side is like the feelings that you know it's just like the what is the word could be but it's not happening cause you're just having fun
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