So this is more like a vent session but I would love to hear men's thoughts I mean on women does it just so you know whatever floats your boat but I just personally feel like if you are still finding yourself and you know with your career and job whatever entrepreneurship I personally feel like you should not be dating like It's like dating cost money to eat a cost money to go places not all the time like there are free dates weather depending on where you leave and go to the park you can you know I go to you live in a tropical are you can go take a walk on the beach and then you know a little picnic like there's things I need to buy after like when I buy food and snacks for a picnic but it's like there's cost efficient dates but I just feel like if you're still getting your life together then you should really have no business dating but like what are your thoughts

I am you can they were your broke but it depends on the person really because example my girlfriend and I didn't have money she still stuck by me and she didn't care and now as I've got older I wanna marry her but yeah if you just depends on how are you wanna meet up the person et cetera it doesn't always cost money from

I can build my employees Yakubu my info on my own right on the Korea get the job and all that she already got a roll down pat you seen all the fair is you know once you get your success and then now you call me the other person right and then the other person just goes ahead and then divorces you then take everything you've worked hard for

Yo so I used to think like this wholeheartedly until I met a woman who didn't want to go out for dinner or go out anywhere to eat she actually preferred to eat her own food and stay home and get to know somebody and in my opinion you actually get to know people better when you're not trying to put on the front or be outside and be your best representation if you trust the person enough to invite them inside to your house you can really get to know somebody see how they act and see how they move and see how they are when there's nobody

I don't know where I left off but I do feel like it's possible I didn't at first but I definitely do now if you aren't into restaurants and walks and beaches and I just feel like all that stuff is like why why do we do all that stuff I feel like those things should be reserved for people we actually are committed to that those are dates like you wouldn't take a child you don't know the Disney world so why do we take people to these places we don't Know

It's my third one I'm just really passionate about this because yeah I will be honest I am not financially secure I make money but not enough to be like you know doing things like that and when you meet somebody who doesn't care about that stuff all man is the best but if you like to go on dates and do all that stuff that's on you I just feel like there's also somebody for everybody there's a guy that wants to take you out and do stuff for you and there's somebody who you know wants to stay home