Okay, so for my people that are in relationships dating or that just want to chime in Do you guys feel like it is okay for your partner to? Have like a friendship or even be best friends with someone who they used to date or have sex with I think for me it depends I would definitely have to observe the relationship if I feel like there's still something going on or still some feelings there then no, I don't think that's acceptable or okay, but if I feel like it's legit, like y'all just, it didn't work out and you guys see that you're better office friends, then I wouldn't, I wouldn't be mad or upset about that. But what do you guys think? Let me know.