Obviously it's fate because it's just a work spouse but why does someone feel that friendly to be that deep with you? That's not appropriate, so disrespectful, and definitely a lack of boundary in my opinion.

definitely way too personal it is a no-go for me and me and my girlfriend actually have this conversation all the time okay well not all the time but we've had this conversation you know that if I'd work someone ever calls us that then delete.

Okay, see that's good that you and your girlfriend talk about that stuff because I feel like a lot of couples don't even talk about that shit either But yeah, no absolutely across the boundaries and I feel like I don't want to be nobody's fucking work anything

yeah my husband he knows I'm like I'm like crazy everyone's crazy right but like I'm like a good kind of crazy I'm like you got me fucked up like don't play with me okay um I wouldn't do nothing like illegal though Jesus

But it's still the fact that like You if if that ever happened It's still the fact that like you allowed someone to cross that boundary and you didn't say anything anything. So now I feel very much disrespected.

Yeah, so for anyone that does do that stuff, I won't say weird because everyone's relationship dynamics are different but I just know what ain't for us so and that would be cheating.

I'm weak because you say well if I got a work wife that's not cheating but if she yellow work has been there yeah wait so which one is it which one is it

It's exactly what I said. I'm gonna get double standard I guess. But nah, nah, nah, nah. That work-life, work-hustle and stuff, that's out the window. That's all we're both ways.

No, but you're good. You're good, you know, but I appreciate the input. Thank you.

I mean I feel like if you wanna relationship. You show me front with nobody and ask is disrespectful of shit so yes that's cheating because what the fuck do you need a fucking spouse at work for if you got somebody at the fucking crazy but the fuck you don't fucking at work on break cause I'm sure by now

Thank you, yes. I feel like it's just it pushes that boundary like no no no no no We're not doing that whole work. Uh-huh. Spouse shit. New. Bye

Yeah, it's crazy to me. I mean, I I will be pulling up at that job. I'll tell you that.

It's also determined by what they're doing, I feel. Is it just a title or are they like bringing each other lunch and breakfast and and coffees and like little gifts, like that's a little too much, I think.

okay see that yes are you guys bringing each other lunch like no that's doing too much no no no no but i mean it's cool to have like work buddies and like being acquainted with the opposite sex it's definitely not an issue but...

Boundaries, boundaries definitely have to be put in place sometimes, and that's okay.

Okay, so work spouse like a work husband work wife That would be if you find someone in the office that you're always like kind of like chatting with whatever And you kind of get acquainted with them

Become like your work spouse pretty much, you know, it's so weird. I've never had a work spouse. I don't plan on it. I think it's weird. It's weird to me.

So from my understanding you just define or describe a co-worker or a colleague unless they are involved romantically or sexually and that's just plain cheating they're just using a different label.