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Okay, so when is a good time for you to introduce your significant other to your family and friends? Is it like at the very beginning? Is it when you guys are kind of settled in? Like when's a good time for them to meet? Personally, I feel like it's good for you, you know, a couple to get to know each other without outside barriers. so maybe six months ish in is a good time and then everything can kind of just naturally fall into place with meeting family and friends. But yeah, let me know.
I am definitely introducing him to my friends when we first meet and see how that goes. I have yet to bring anyone home to meet my family so yeah there goes that
Yeah, I feel like it's very sacred to be bringing my significant other to meet my family because if I'm letting you guys meet them, clearly it's someone very special, you know, so totally get it.
I do as quickly as possible and I recommend that because they need to get along and you know especially if there's a functional healthy relationship with your family and other people see things more quickly than we do
And I say that because there was a test done in love lab that showed that subconsciously we go back to like whatever we've been used to even if it's toxicity and not what we like really want so you know introducing them to friends they can find red flags quicker than we can
Okay, I just want to say Ms. Ash, I literally, I love all your input you've been saying, yes, I actually didn't even think about that part of the, you know, people, other people spot red flags faster than yourself. So that's really good.
He thinks I try sometimes to share my like 40 year old wisdom stuff that I wish like people would've never told me or maybe they didn't tell me but I didn't hear it you know
I understand that I get your point but I feel like I'm not like in this position that I want validation or acceptance from family members or maybe suggestions I think maybe I'm more like
I do not want any opinions between my decisions or my needs so I will leave it all up to me. And if I decide I don't get along with him or anything, it's because my decision and not.
Okay, that's fair. That's fair. Definitely, you know, trying to see what they're about before even, you know, introducing them to your family, I get that. I do.
I think it depends on how each person wants to. I think at least probably like a month or two. Maybe like a month I would say because you also want them to get along with your people
I feel like you can introduce them to your friends like as soon as you become official but I would wait like maybe like two or three months before introducing them to family.
I actually really like that kind of getting the frang side or how they like, you know, your partner and then introducing them to family. Yeah. And I feel like it maybe gets them prepared for meeting family too. See ya.
I don't think it's necessary to introduce them right away I always writer to you know wait until how the relationship is going and how he managed to be with me
So when I feel more comfortable doing it then I will let you know and tell my friends and family about it but you know sometimes Latin culture tends to want to know everything you do
Right, and that makes so much sense too. You introduce them on your own terms when you're ready. That's the part that matters the most. family and friends when you're ready.
I would say when you're really comfortable with each other and you've, you know, been through some good happy stuff together and you know, I just, I just, there shouldn't be a time limit and on stuff like this. It's just whenever you're ready.